Ah, as the ancient proverb says, "When the student is ready, the teacher appears."

You ask the insightful questions that most entrepreneurs, myself included, neglect to ask, in advance.

I started a cellular retail store in 1989 with a partner. This was when the first Motorola flip phone hit the market. It cost us $3100 wholesale. Yikes.

We were friends. Unfortunately, even though the business recorded taxable profits in such a short time, we shut it down after about 6 months due to irreconcilable differences between us. We were both too stubborn, me maybe more than him. Lesson: being friends is not enough. 1. Partners need to be completely in sync philosophically. 2. I have had partners since, but will never do 50/50 again. There needs to be a leader/decision maker. If both or all the partners think they are the leaders, you are just heading for a crash. That is not to say that the leader is independent. But, ultimately, someone needs to break the tie and make the decision.

As for outsourcing, when you are bootstrapping you end up doing more tasks than you would otherwise. If you have the funds, outsource everything that keeps you from your core competences. But, never put the destiny of your company entirely in someone else's hands. Keep controls in place and keep close tabs on the money. Don't abdicate growing the business for running the business.

As for learning things the hard way, is there any other way? Seriously though, I have learned to listen to my wife. Had I listened to her "discernment" when I was younger, I would not have made as many poor decisions as I did. As for another lesson, I purchased a full service hair salon many years ago. No, I am not in that profession. It was purely an economic decision. I sold it one year later for more than double my investment. However, I could have done significantly better and had less aggregations had I fired the salon manager. She had convinced me that she could run the place better than the previous owner. Unfortunately, she also rallied all the employees making it difficult for me to turn the ship around. I did it in spite of her. And, the next owner did replace her. Now I understand why top level people are often, not always, replaced in acquisitions. It is a soft skill, but I am more keenly aware of company culture and the influence of leadership now than I was 25 years ago.

Hope that sheds some light. If you woul like to chat further, give me a call using the free call link below.

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Best regards,

Kevin McCarthy
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