Hello!

Thank you for your question.

In simple terms: Your unconscious expectations, your self-set boundaries and your self image cause the result to stay the same in different jobs / circumstances.

You have been given some book recommendations prior to my answer. However: What should really brake the ice and give you a practical approach with true results is "psycho-cybernetics"

I hope for you to find your path! If you ever want to express your experiences and challenges in detail - I will gladly listen and we will find a solution together.

Yours,
Max