Hey there, I want to start off by saying I’m sorry you feel that you have to ask this question. Give love but never give power. ...
Always be mindful to keep a balance. ...
Set boundaries. ...
Respect yourself so that others can respect you. ...
Know yourself and your needs. ...
Accept your partner, accept yourself. ...
Do not be quiet if disrespected.Respect and good communication are the true functions for any two people to really share love and understanding. Romantic or not.

If you find the opportunity to really sit down and ask yourself- has this person ever respected me? If you think that the answer is no, then the best way to get someone to respect you is by respecting yourself
There are many situations where a person who loves you deeply may have to lose respect for you, such as maybe a cheating incident or maybe a lie happened. It doesn’t matter what was done, what matters is restoration.
First of all, you need to talk with her soon as possible about mutual respect, all relationship starts with this. You two have more to say than you imagine