I wouldn't worry, if I were you, about any number of females that haven't approached you. There is a gaggle of men, although, nothing is new, who are finding themselves to be lonely. Many are becoming very right-wing and "traditional," but without, say, attending church like some of the younger women might be tending to do "lately". Do you really, truthfully, or honestly want to expect that you should or want to just lay back and have everybody stumbling over themselves to fight each-other, to be with you? You probably ARE, the person you self-described yourself to be--and, for, whom am I to know more than the person being discussed knows themselves? You know yourself best. We all know ourselves better than anybody else will ever understand us. But. Your frustration is palpable and it's the frustration of many. I am going to ask a controversial-question; and, I am NOT, picking on you. This is not my intention and I'd ask it to almost any male feeling dejected like you might be. How do you KNOW, that you're hot? Is it a perception that came within you or without you? Basically--the world is your oyster. And; if you've already decided you'd rather be chased but that that isn't working out; then give being chased but by, the opposite-of females, and, a shot. That would be my heartfelt-and-experiential-advice. Take care; God Bless; if you'd like any more help or advice or even maybe, on how to do this or these things--drop me a line, please and thank-you! :).