I’ve learned that making people like you isn’t about acting different, it’s about creating emotional safety and resonance.
People naturally like those who make them feel seen and calm. That starts with grounding yourself… slowing your breathing, grounding yourself, and being genuinely curious.
Maybe ask open questions like “What drew you to that?” or “That sounds meaningful, tell me more.” When you listen with warmth instead of waiting to respond, people feel it.
Also, stop trying to be “interesting.” Just be interested. When your energy shifts from self-monitoring to exploring others, trust me, you automatically become more magnetic 👌🏾
If you struggle to show your real self or feel over-analytical in social settings, I can help you translate self-awareness into presence and connection. You can book a short call, and we’ll pinpoint what’s blocking that natural likability and how to change it smoothly.
