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The Islam woman in the US I have known longer and we are coming together very soon. The Moroccan woman that I seek to marry as well will cause for a longer process to marry her and her parents have a particular way that they want their daughter to be married. The first woman in America. Has no parents and only her grandmother. This American raised woman has depended on me for 5 months now for financial and emotional support while finishing school. We have only maintained communication via calling, videoing and messaging each other. Our emotional and spiritual connection is very deep. However the Moroccan woman and I have a very very strong connection as well. We met on Muzz. She cannot come to the US essentially until I go there and we get married. My dilemma is I am in a position now where myself and the American raised woman are coming together physically this week and of course I want us to get married so that we can keep it halal and live together. If I marry her first though. I will not be eligible to marry the Moroccan woman because for the paperwork I’d fill out for our marriage. I would have to be single. I really am not sure what to do. I have been transparent and honest with both of them and they both agree that would not mind the three of us sharing the same roof and me marrying them both. They are completely fine. The problem resides in the fact that it is necessary for me to be legally single in order for me to marry the Moroccan woman. But also the American raised woman actually needs me right now and we must begin to live together to help us share finances and make it easier on me as the provider. So I cannot wait any longer with her. I hope this is clear. I am praying that you can help me. By the way. The Moroccan woman suggested you to me. Salam brother.

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Brett Rivers answered

Hello, You need to make a decision matrix. What will happen if you marry the American woman? What won't happen if you marry the American woman? What will happen if you marry the Moroccan woman? What won't happen if you marry Moroccan woman? This will help you logically proceed with your decision. Warmly, Brett