Lo Chandler (She/Her)
Founder, High Control Los
Coercive Control & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
Somatic Internal Family Systems Practitioner
Core Expertise:
Coercive control across interpersonal & institutional contexts
Narcissistic abuse dynamics and recovery
Relational trauma & traumatic repetition
Somatic IFS & nervous system regulation
Survivor-centered advocacy & education
Background:
20+ years in clinical and caregiving professions
MA-level training in psychology and relational systems
Educator, speaker, and consultant on trauma-informed care
Former veterinary professional with deep somatic awareness
Kink/BDSM educator with a focus on power, consent, and systems
