I used to struggle with the stuff you're going through. Now I don't. Studied Philosophy, human behaviour, and relationships.
I used to have trouble speaking to women. I was afraid of rejection, scared of being alone, was very anxious, depressed, and desperate. A year after high school I decided enough was enough. Now I'm Batman. I'll tell you what you need to do to get the results you want. None of that feel-good about yourself bullshit. Just the stuff you need to hear to go out there and kick some ass.